I am the grass and the grass is me
also I own men’s boxers with cats in them yes yes yes
violetmcdaniels replied to your post “violetmcdaniels replied to your post “Question: For those AFAB…”
I think either would work for both the pants and the shirt?
i feel you i feel you. thanks!
Just need to figure out how to buy the right kind of slacks! thanks though!
wildwhitenorth replied to your post “Question: For those AFAB genderfluid people, what do you wear to be…”
Whatever I feel like! A dress if I’m feeling feminine, a suit or khakis and an oxford if I’m feeling masculine. It makes packing a huge pain
how do I even get more masculine clothing like a suit? where would I get a suit that isn’t a stupid woman’s suit? I need like, slacks and a nongender like, button-up or something.
hostagetomymind replied to your post “Question: For those AFAB genderfluid people, what do you wear to be…”
A dress with boxers underneath? That’s what I usually do
that’s actually a pretty good idea. I hadn’t though about wearing like, men’s undergarments under more feminine clothing for comfort. thanks!
violetmcdaniels replied to your post “Question: For those AFAB genderfluid people, what do you wear to be…”
I usually wear black dress pants and a white blouse and then you can add jewelry and stuff to make it more feminine or leave it as is depending on how you feel hope this helps!
well do you wear a men’s top or a women’s top? I guess that’s my issue- finding androgynous pants and shirts that are formal!
don’t worry about it, I went to therapy for two years and eventually you’ll get really comfortable talking to your therapist :) good luck friend
thanks! I’ve been seeing him for years but today we had to talk seriously about like, increasing my medication and stuff. stressful!
I want a shirt with my pronouns listed and then something along the lines of “yeah i know this shirt is obnoxious but if you got my pronouns right the first time i wouldn’t need this”
For those AFAB genderfluid people, what do you wear to be dressier? Like, for a nice dinner or a more formal event, what do you wear?